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By answering just 4 simple questions, find out the psychological characteristics of character

To determine the psychological nature of a person, you can use the following technique: ask the test subject to do a few simple manipulations with his hands and eyes. The test consists of four easy tasks that a person performs intuitively. According to its results, one can name the main character traits.

Put your hands in the "lock". If the thumb of the right hand is on top, write down the number "2", if the left - the number "1".
Close one eye and aim at an invisible target. If the left eye remains open, then write down the number "1", if the right eye - "2".
Cross your arms over your chest. See which hand is on top. If the left hand is lying on top of the right hand, then write down the number "1", the right one on top - "2".
Applaud. If the left hand is on top, then the number "1", if the right one, then "2".

Based on the results of the test, determine the nature of the test

Below are the psychological characteristics of a person's character, depending on the answers received based on the test results.

2222	One hundred percent right-handed - a stable type of character, conservatism, unwillingness to enter into conflicts, argue with anyone.
2221	The most striking character trait is extreme indecision.
2212	You are sociable, you can always find a common language with almost everyone.
2111	You are fickle, do everything yourself, do not look for the support of others.
2211	A rather rare combination. You are sociable, you make contact, you have a very soft character.
2122	You are a “techie”, an analytical mindset and gentleness. You are cautious about everything, there is some coldness in relation to others.
2121	The rarest combination is defenselessness, susceptibility to the influence of people.
1112	You are emotional, energetic and determined.
1222	A fairly common character. You are emotional, but lack perseverance and perseverance in solving life issues, subject to other people's influence. Good communication skills and people are drawn to you.
1221	Emotionality, lack of perseverance, gentle nature, naivety.
1122	You are a friendly person, but a little naive and simple. They tend to delve into themselves, analyze actions. There are many interests, but not enough time for everything.
1121	You trust people very much and you have a gentle nature. Most likely, you are a creative person.
1111	100% left-handed, you are an extremely non-conservative person. Creativity plays an important role in your life. You look at many things outside the box. Strong emotions, pronounced individualism, selfishness. You are stubborn and selfish, but this does not prevent you from living.
1212	You are a strong spirited person. It can be said that you are stubborn, you achieve your goals.
1211	You are prone to digging inside yourself, a little closed, it is quite difficult to find friends, but you are strong in spirit, hardly anything can break you in achieving your goal.
2112	You have easy and laid-back character traits, you easily find new friends, make acquaintances and often change hobbies.

Your character and geometric shapes

First of all, take a good look at the presented images of geometric shapes. Choose the one you like or look best in and find out what type of person you are by reading the relevant information below.

Square. People - "Squares" are usually patient, stubborn and incredibly diligent. To give up on the work they started and say “It still didn’t work out” is not in their style. "Squares" will methodically move towards the intended goal step by step, somewhat subtly resembling an asphalt paver, and will not stop until it is reached. Thanks to these qualities, they make excellent pros.

The saying “War is war, and dinner is on schedule” must have been invented by one of the “Squares”: at the words “improvisation” or “impromptu”, they wrinkle their noses and frown with displeasure. From their point of view, life is good if it goes according to plan. These lovers of stability try to stick to the once and forever routine of things. They love to build logical constructions and schemes, they hate surprises, innovations and any changes in general, and those that make adjustments to their logical constructions, in particular.

Rectangle. The rectangle is considered a temporary, transitional form. Usually it is chosen by people who are currently extremely dissatisfied with themselves and their lives and want to change this situation for the better. “Everything is there for happiness, I’m just not there, but this means that I will be there” - this is the motto under which they operate. The main qualities of "Rectangles" are curiosity, courage and interest in everything new. They crave change with all their hearts and absorb new knowledge like a sponge. It is extremely rare for people to stay in the "Rectangle phase" for a long time - as a rule, after the decision on what needs to be done is made, they "mutate" into any other figure, from the remaining four.

Triangle. In winter and summer, regardless of the vagaries of the weather and the must-haves of the season, the people - "Triangles" are dressed in the yellow jersey of the leader. These are real Energizers, only unlike batteries, they have ambition and pragmatism. They are prudent, ambitious, not only know what they want, but also how to achieve it. At work, they are able to very intelligibly convince the management of their own indispensability. "Triangles" often sin in that they are sure that there are two points of view - wrong and their own. They are strong personalities and dangerous competitors, sometimes it seems that along with the blood, the spirit of rivalry flows through their veins.

A circle. A person - "Circle" like no one else knows how to empathize and sympathize, he can easily imagine himself in the place of another person, "get used" to other people's emotions and share them. Kind and sympathetic "Circles" can feel happy only if everything is in order not only for themselves, but for their relatives and friends. "Circles" prefer not to conflict with others, but to "smooth out" misunderstandings. Sometimes for them, peace is more precious than truth, in 99% of cases out of 100 they will make concessions first.

Zigzag."Zigzags" - creative, creative, original personalities. They reject beaten paths, cliches and stereotypes, preferring to do everything their own way, inventing non-standard moves and solutions. Among these originals, charismatic, charming people often come across. "Zigzags" quite easily lose their temper, and their mood sometimes changes faster than the exchange rate during trading on the stock exchange. "Zigzags" are excellent speakers who are ready to share the ideas that come to their mind with everyone who wants to (however, they also don't want to).

Your character and color

Your attention is presented a palette of the most popular colors. Choose the color that is closest to your spirit and see the results of your choice.

White color. It is a synthesis of all colors, so it is the ideal color, the "dream color". It has a significant meaning, since it simultaneously conveys both the brilliance of light and the coldness of ice. This color can be preferred by a person with any character, it does not repel anyone.

Black color. This color can cause anxiety, be associated with negative phenomena. It symbolizes a bleak perception of life. Anyone who prefers to dress in black (excluding mourning symbols - this is a special case) often perceives life in gloomy colors, is not self-confident, unhappy, prone to depression, because he has no doubt that ideals in life are unattainable. A frequent change of a suit or dress in black to another, brighter one is an indicator that pessimistic moods are being dispelled.

Grey colour. The favorite color of reasonable and distrustful people, who think for a long time before making any decision. This color is also preferred by those who are afraid to express themselves too loudly. People who do not like this color have an impulsive, frivolous character.

Red- the color of passion. A person is distinguished by courage, willpower, dominance, quick temper, sociability, a tendency to altruism, if this is his favorite color. People who are annoyed by this color have an inferiority complex, fear of quarrels, a love of solitude, and instability in relationships.

Orange color. Favorite color of people with developed intuition and passionate dreamers. This color also indicates hypocrisy and pretense.

Brown and all its shades. Prefer those who stand firmly and confidently on their feet. People who have a weakness for him appreciate traditions, family. His rejection speaks of pride, selfishness, secrecy, isolation.

Yellow. It symbolizes calmness, ease in relations with people, intelligence. People who love him are distinguished by sociability, curiosity, courage. They easily adapt to everything and love to please and attract attention. It is unpleasant for closed, pessimistic people, with whom it can be difficult to make acquaintances.

Salad- the color of misanthropes and cynics. He likes powerful people who seek to impose their will on others, but do not dare to act for fear of getting into a difficult situation.

Pink is the color of life, of all living things. He talks about the need to love and be kinder. Those who like him tend to worry about the most insignificant things. In pragmatic people, this color causes irritation.

Purple. He speaks of a very great emotionality, sensitivity, high spirituality and delicacy. This is the color of harmoniously developed people. It is not accepted by people with a developed sense of duty, who want to live only in the present.

Blue color. Since this is the color of the sky, it is usually associated with the spiritual sublimity of a person, his purity. Adherence to it speaks of modesty and melancholy. Such a person needs to rest often, he gets tired quickly and easily, a sense of self-confidence and the benevolence of others are extremely important for him. Those who do not accept it want to show that everything in the world is subject to them. But, in fact, they are insecure and withdrawn people. Indifference to this color speaks of a well-known frivolity in the field of feelings, hidden under the mask of courtesy.

Green- the color of nature, nature, life itself, spring. The one who prefers it is afraid of someone else's influence, looking for a way to assert himself, since this is vital for him; and the one who does not love him is afraid of everyday problems, the vicissitudes of fate, in general, all difficulties.

Your character and date of birth

Website numerologia.xiro.ru claims that each of the digits of the date of birth, as well as their sum, indicates certain abilities or some gift of a person, and the more identical numbers, the more pronounced these abilities. In addition, it has been noticed that the presence of certain numbers in the date of birth affects certain abilities of a person.

In order to learn something new about yourself, to discover some hitherto unknown talents, you need to study the date of your birth. It's very simple. Let's say you were born on 01/14/1986, add up all the numbers: 1+4+0+1+1+9+8+6=30=3+0=3.

Now let's decompose all the numbers in the chain into the grid below:

1 - a person draws vital energy from nature
2 - a vampire who takes energy from others
3 - energy source external (cosmic) sources
4 - excellent physical data
5 - a person knows how to love
6 - well developed intuition
7 - has its own guardian angel
8 - predestination of fate
9 - high level of intelligence.

The absence of any numbers in the chain indicates the absence of these qualities, and vice versa, repeated repetition indicates an increase in influence.

About the owner of the date of birth given in the example, we can say that this is a person who actively draws vital energy from nature (1 * 3), not a vampire, by nature has good physical data and developed intuition, but does not know how to truly love, not has a guardian angel, but obeys his fate and has high intellectual abilities.

Date of birth value

Since time immemorial, people have known that numbers are endowed with some kind of magical essence. Numerology is one of the oldest sciences, which was looking for meaning in every number. In ancient Greek, Arabic and even ancient European languages, the meaning of the date of birth of letters was considered through the prism of numbers. At the moment, a simplified alphabetic and numeric code is used in numerology - the numbers from 1 to 9.

The meaning of numbers from the date of birth

1 - bright, active, emotional personalities capable of achieving success in sports and on the stage;
2 - non-conflict, sociable people who are able to captivate with their ideas and lead;
3 - such people have a craving for the unknown, and some of them even beyond their ability, such as hypnosis and clairvoyance or magic. Strong character allows them to achieve great heights in any field, in science they become great scientists, in art - avant-garde artists;
4 - workaholics who are used to relying only on themselves;
5 - such people are very successful in business, they are sociable and smart, have the ability to lead positions;
6 - such people have well-developed intuition and have the ability to foresee.
7 - successful people with a good sense of humor, emotional and talented;
8 - extraordinary personalities who carefully weigh everything before doing something;
9 - strong-willed people endowed with intelligence and strong character. Leaders who are able to lead regiments behind them are distinguished by courage and bravery.

Numerology of the name and date of birth

The numbers found in the date, that is, in the month, day and year of birth, determine the direction of development of the history and character of the era. And it is no coincidence that the 20th century became the century of high technology, the century of the development of science and technology. Indeed, in the date of birth of each of us there is a nine, and someone does not even have one. In past centuries, people with nines in their date of birth were rare, and if they did, they were far ahead of the era, remaining misunderstood.

The name is interconnected with the date of birth, since two people born on the same day have a different fate, because they may have a different name, surname or patronymic.

Meaning of numbers

For the first time, the meaning of numbers in numerology was published in the book Occult Philosophy by Cornelius Agrippa:

1 - this is the number of the goal, it can manifest itself in an aggressive form and ambitiousness;
2 is, on the one hand, throwing from one extreme to another, like day and night, like white and black, and on the other hand, this is a number - scales, maintaining balance and smoothing out the contrast between negative and positive;
3 is a triangle, each side of which symbolizes the past, present and future, an unstable state, but at the same time excellent adaptability;
4 - on the contrary, a symbol of stability and strength. The reliability of the square is reinforced by the cardinal points, the seasons and the elements: air, fire, water and earth;
5 - the most unpredictable number, achieving results through risk and own experience;
6 is a reliable number. It is a multiple of two and three at the same time, therefore it combines the elements of each;
7 is the most mysterious number, it symbolizes everything unknown, as well as the path to knowledge. Not without reason, apparently, seven days in a week, seven ruling planets and seven notes in the scale;
8 - symbolizes success in material affairs. The double square, as well as the sign of infinity, means perfect reliability;
9 is the largest of the prime numbers, a symbol of all-round success, like the three, can turn instability into aspiration.

Example: The person was born in 1990 - we see 1 and 0, as well as doubling the nine. We can say about such a person that he is quick-tempered and purposeful, has powerful penetrating energy and strength, and is able to bring the work he has begun to the end.

Deciphering the numbers in the date of birth

The online newspaper "Zerkalo" offers its own version of the meaning of certain numbers that are present in the date of birth.

The absence of a unit is the presence of a healthy mind. It turns out that all children born after 2000 are all sane. One unit is EGO. The ego is constantly broadcasting "I want." A person's desires can develop into selfishness, which is why a metered number of desires is important. Two or three units - the person himself solves all his questions, more than three units in the date of birth - this is a tyrant and tyrant. If everything: a day, a month and a year are added up and got one, then the person does not need advice, he makes his own life, sometimes correctly.

Science, knowledge, knowledge of the world is associated with a deuce. The absence of a deuce indicates a lack of energy associated with learning. Everything needs to be studied. One or two deuces make it easy for a person to learn and this should be used. More than three deuces - a person owns energy, as a rule, these are psychics, healers, donors for vampires. The sum of the date of birth equal to two indicates the cyclical nature of life situations. Think of a new birthday. Sometimes the total is 11, this is a strong number, sometimes it makes sense to leave it, because it provides an opportunity to choose a progressive life, participation in risky enterprises.

People without a triple in their date of birth are very specific, clean housewives. Two or three triples speak of dreaminess, this is a person of mood. Three or more triples speak of stinginess and pedantry. Whoever sums up a triple can live a full-blooded, happy life, and a person is able to learn from the experience of others.

Poor health and prone to disease is a person without a four. One four is not a guarantee, you need to go in for sports and your health. Two or more are potential athletes. A lot of energy and in sports will be able to succeed. A sum equal to four speaks of the ability to have friends, achieve fame and respect. Sometimes, in the process of summing up, the number 22 is obtained, it gives the possibility of success in life, but with active work.

There is no five in the date of birth, but there is tension in communicating with people. Such people shun society, but they need to communicate by force. One and two fives make it easy to communicate, and the person has good intuition. Three or more fives speak of a person who is able to predict events. A person who has a total of five has a lot of strange and original in life. The personality is strong and life is long.

The absence of a six in the date of birth speaks of the subtle nature, romance and dreaminess of a person. In the presence of one six, a person has a solid character. For a person with two or more sixes, physical labor is necessary. For a person whose birthday number sum is six, life is full of changes, life is often changing, but fruitful. A person does not take care of his health. Success is only through hardness and focus.

There is an opportunity to rely on the talent and creativity of people who do not have a seven in their date of birth. With one or two sevens, you can succeed in any business. If there are more than two sevens, everything works out, no need to think, their task is to do. The sum of the numbers in the date of birth equal to seven indicates a huge capacity for work in large projects, a successful life and great willpower.

Eight is missing - there is no sense of duty. One eight speaks of creativity and conscientiousness. Two or more eights indicate the ability of this person to serve people and achieve outstanding results. An adventurous and adventurous, active and hectic life for a person whose date of birth sums up to eight.

The absence of a nine indicates a lack of intelligence. One or two nines on a birthday speak of intelligence and independence. More than three nines - a person has a sense of humor, an excellent conversationalist, sometimes despising others. The sum of the digits of the birthday equal to nine indicates the inclination of nature to travel, unusual actions, adventures.

The presence of numbers 3,6,9 makes it possible to have a vital core. The numbers 2, 5, 8 indicate a tendency to start a family. The numbers 1,4,7 allow you to have social success in any system. The presence of 1 and 7 guarantees special security and good luck, this is perseverance and excellent analytics, and if there is a person who is interested in the abilities of the latter, you can make good capital. Numbers 1,2,3 speak about a healthy mind.

The numbers 4,5,6 speak of purposefulness, intuition, a stable nervous system, and enormous diligence, 7,8,9 about talents, and if there are two or more sevens and eights, money is pouring in golden rain. The numbers 7 and 9 speak of unsinkability, a person will come out with a profit from any collisions. Abundance of love, the ability to analyze based on logic, is characterized by the numbers 1,5,9, and with two nines, you must become rich. The presence of a mission on earth, wisdom and wealth confirms the presence of numbers 3,5,7.

The presence of 5 and 7 is a lucky and just an easy person. The presence of one, five, six, eight is interpreted as a sign of wealth, and no special efforts are required. The presence of three twos and fours indicates a large energy potential. More than two triples and nines speaks of literary talent, clairvoyance, but a quarrelsome character.

The lack of numbers can be accompanied by life failures. There are no 7, 8, 9 in the date of birth and a person is content with little, avoids any situations, therefore he lives without success, but also without luck. Workaholics do not have the numbers 4, 5, 7, 8 in their birthday. Lack of money is characterized by the absence of numbers 3,6,9, a constant shortage for any projects. Continuous losses accompany people who do not have the numbers 4,7,6,9. Emptiness and cold, loneliness and continuous problems, constant depression, migraines and mental disorders are observed in people without numbers 3, 5, 7.

For those who are interested in this topic, I can advise you to take online simple numerological tests and you will be able to get answers to many questions that interest you.

How to know your future by personal number of the year

What will next year be like? It is customary to learn about this from horoscopes and with the help of fortune-telling. However, the astrologer-numerologist Lilia Romanova in the Vesti newspaper offers a more reliable, in her opinion, way to find out your personal year: "This will help you understand what period of your life you are in, what you should hurry with, and what you can wait."

To find out your personal year, add the day and month of your birth and the numbers of the current year (2014). For example, for a person born on March 25, the calculation will be as follows: 2+5+0+3+2+0+1+4 = 17. We bring the sum to a prime number: 1+7=8. This is the desired number.

And now - explanations for the figures obtained.

One. This is the time when you need to lay the foundation, the foundation for a new period of your life. If everything goes according to schedule, then a person at this time is likely to move to a new place of residence, a change in marital status, often there is a change in work and position (up to a change in profession). This is a good time to start studying, buying an apartment, getting married, having a baby, and anything else that renews your life.

Two. Period of contacts and contracts. New people and events appeared last year. And now there are new agreements. If last year you had to do something new that is long overdue and think about what else you would like to bring renewal to your life, then in the second personal year it is time to “open the gates” for all these events. If in the first personal year they marry those with whom they had met for a long time, then in the second year you can get to know each other and get married ...

Three. Time relax. Feel like "Emeley on the stove", let the world revolve around you. During this period, it is contraindicated to do what the soul does not lie in. If you do not like the job, then you will either quit yourself, or you will be fired, or the company will go bankrupt. The same is with personal relationships. At this time, it is unbearable to be with the unloved.

Four. Plowing period. The time when you want to work, any business is on the shoulder. The financial situation is getting better. It is recommended to make large purchases - to buy an apartment, house, land, cottage ... It is good to move up the career ladder. A good year for people in uniform. Particular success can be expected for athletes, dancers - all those who work with the body and hands.

Five. This is the first of two periods of change. At this time, the impossible is possible - a year of risk, adventures, stormy romances and wonderful surprises. This period is wonderful because you can completely change your life and make a reality what you have long dreamed of. The danger lies in the fact that you can break firewood, and then correct the consequences of your rash acts for a long time.

Six. Its motto is: "Home, family, creativity, children." Personal life, family concerns, arranging a family nest - these are the priorities of this period. If everything goes according to schedule, then a person at this time has a change in marital status. This is the best time for marriage, the birth of a child, moving to a new apartment, major repairs. For creative people, after several years of silence, it is this year that a new music album, the premiere of a play, a new book can be released.

Seven. Bug fixing time. Behind - six periods, each is important in its own way, and it is necessary to slow down the run through life and answer the questions: "Who am I?", "Who are these people next to me?" - and most importantly: "Where am I going?" Much is said about the crisis of 30-year-olds, 40-year-olds. And everyone says: it is not known exactly when it will begin ... So, it begins in the seventh personal year. If a person works well on mistakes, he will have a successful next period. If this work goes badly, the crisis could drag on for several years.

Eight. It's harvest time. If you correctly and constructively dealt with exactly what was needed in previous periods, then this year will be successful. This is the time when you can be promoted, the business pays dividends. This is another year favorable for marriage and marriage, the birth of children, the purchase of real estate ... If all the previous periods a person did not do what he should, then the harvest will be appropriate.

Nine. This is the second period of change, the time when you need to dot the i's and close the doors to the previous life. Often this is a rather difficult period - losses and painful partings await those who do not want to keep up with the times and change with it. But, again, it all depends on you. Changes can be both pleasant and expected, for example, a long-planned wedding or a carefully prepared move to another country, or sudden ones - traffic accidents, accidents, business failure. But be that as it may, all these events clear the way for a new life cycle.

In conclusion, a short summary. If you have completed the study of your character and agreed with certain conclusions, then you have already understood a lot about yourself and can evaluate yourself and your behavior from a new angle.

But do not forget that a person, in any case, is "the creator of his own happiness", and his favorite geometric shapes, colors and the magic of numbers are just a kind of road map that shows him the way in the dark. This is a kind of light at the end of the tunnel, indicating the direction, but it depends on us whether we follow it, or whether we will resist to the last.

In conclusion, I offer an instructive story that will help you both in solving problems in business or at work, and in overcoming difficulties of a personal plan.

Parable about different types of people

The Student comes to the Teacher and begins to complain about his hard life. He asked for advice on what to do when both things fell on him, and another, and a third, and in general, they just give up!

The teacher silently got up and placed four pots of water in front of him. In one he threw a wooden chock, in another - a carrot, in the third - an egg, in the fourth - crushed coffee beans.

After a while, he took out what he had thrown from the water.

"What changed?" - asked the Teacher.

“Nothing…” - the Student answered.

The teacher silently nodded and put the four pots of water on the fire. When the water boiled, he again threw a wooden chock into one, a carrot into another, an egg into the third, crushed coffee beans into the fourth.

After a while, he took out a piece of wood, a carrot, an egg and poured fragrant coffee into a cup. The student, of course, did not understand anything.

"What changed?" the Teacher asked again.

“What should have happened. The carrot and the egg were boiled, the piece of wood remained unchanged, and the coffee beans dissolved in boiling water. - answered the student.

"This is just a superficial view of things," Master replied. “Look carefully. The carrot boiled in water and from hard became soft, easily collapsing. Even outwardly, she began to look different. The tree hasn't changed at all. The egg, without changing externally, became hard inside and it no longer feared the blows from which it used to ... flow out of its shell. Coffee colored the water, gave it a new taste and aroma.

“Water is our life. Fire is change and adverse circumstances. Carrot, tree, egg and coffee are types of people. They all change in difficult moments of life in different ways.

1. Man-carrot. Most of them are. These people only in ordinary life seem solid. In moments of life troubles, they become soft and slippery. They give up, blame everything either on others or "insurmountable external circumstances." A little "pressed" and ... they are already in a panic, psychologically crushed. Such “carrots”, as a rule, easily become “fashion victims”, they want “everything to be with them, like people”, it is on them that successful merchants, politicians and ... predictors make their fortunes.

2. Tree man. There are few of them. These people do not change, remain themselves in any life situations. They, as a rule, are cold-blooded, internally calm, whole, or something. And it is these people who show everyone that even difficult life circumstances ... are just life, and after a black stripe there always comes a white one.

3. Man-egg. These are those whom the hardships of life harden, make stronger! There are very, very few such people. It is these people who in ordinary life are nobody, but in difficult times they suddenly “harden” and stubbornly overcome “external circumstances”.

4. “But what about coffee!” the student exclaimed.

“Oh, this is the fun part! Under the influence of adverse life circumstances, coffee beans completely dissolved in the environment, making a tasty, aromatic and invigorating drink out of tasteless water! - the teacher answered, sipping fragrant coffee from a cup with pleasure.

“There are special people. Their units. They do not so much change under the influence of unfavorable circumstances, but change the very circumstances of life, turning them into something beautiful, benefiting from every unfavorable situation and changing the lives of all people around.

The questions in this article will help you get to know yourself better. By trying on different situations and asking yourself the right questions, you can discover thoughts and patterns in behavior that you usually miss. Grab a notebook and a pen and let's get started.

Know yourself.

1. Who are you?

Unfortunately, nothing comes to mind. The question is so broad that it even causes irritation. We cannot just look inside ourselves, psychological mirrors usually help with this. A psychological mirror is an intelligent person (ideally a psychotherapist) who would guide you. But if there are none nearby, then the right questions will replace them. And also a pen and paper to capture those thoughts and feelings that can be very well disguised and go unnoticed for a long time.

2. What is the meaning of life? What is love? Who are you?

These questions don't get a bad rap because they're incorrect. It's just that they are not broken into more precise pieces, so they are difficult to process. The question of who we are needs to be divided so that it is easier to assimilate. Not “Who am I?” But “Who am I at work, in relationships, with friends, children?”.

3. What happened to you as a child?

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The question seems ridiculous, but, unfortunately, it is not. Almost everything that we are today is the result of behavior patterns laid down in childhood (and safely forgotten). Children, because of their mindset, cannot fully understand the peculiarities of their own psyche. For the first 10 years, we live blindly before we even learn to understand our motives and emotions. Now it's time to go back and rethink them.

Freud's theory is overrated, discredited and considered wrong, you object. This is true in some key areas. But Freud's basic idea is considered in psychology to be undeniable and definitely true: the unconscious and childhood largely determine the choice of partners, sexual preferences and moral principles. Therefore, there is nothing left but to work with this difficult material.

4. What is shown in this picture?

This is a card from the association test, which was developed by the Swiss psychologist Hermann Rorschach. The idea is to show you something vague, indefinite, and then your imagination fills these vagueness with its own associations, while at the same time releasing some of your repressed fears, expectations, desires. People with hidden aggression will see hostility, scandal. People who suppress sexual desires - the vagina. What do you see?

5. Continue with the following sentences:

In the heart of all men ...
When you get to know them better, all the women...

A favorite technique of psychologists is to invite you to quickly, without hesitation, complete an incomplete sentence. We will not be able to fully control our unconscious, and therefore we will discover some important installations that we usually suppress. In the process of self-discovery, you are likely to be frightened by some things. But that's okay, we're all very strange.

6. Draw your family on a piece of paper

Draw a picture of parents, brothers and sisters, a house, a sun, a tree. This is not a strictly scientific method, but it leads to certain thoughts.

The one you drew next to you is closest to you.
The one who is at the greatest distance from you, and emotionally far from you.
By the size of the figure depicting you, you can tell if you have high or low self-esteem.
Home is an extension of you, your ego. Is he in good condition?
Windows characterize the degree of your sociability. Does your house have a door? Do you let people into your life?

7. Are you optimistic about humanity and the future of the planet?

8. Did you sleep well last night?

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We tend to deny that there is any connection between the answers to these two questions, attributing all our thoughts about high dispassionate rational calculation. But we must accept the fact that, to some extent, our thoughts are influenced by the physical state: how we are, what we ate for dinner, how long ago we were hugged. In this sense, despite our large brains, we are not as far removed from babies as we once were.

9. What do you blame your parents for?

Why do you think they were the way they were? What pressured them and what difficulties did they experience? What can a good friend say about them?

Of course, your parents can take much of the blame for your failures. But shifting responsibility prevents you from better understanding what is happening in your life. Your parents were in the same position in relation to their parents and also cannot be fully responsible for their mental characteristics. What if we start thinking about the feelings of our parents, who, oddly enough, are also victims?

10. Let's say that you are a traditional sexual orientation. Have you ever wanted to touch the body of a person of the same gender as you?

Sigmund Freud made a brilliant discovery: much remains in the realm of the unconscious because of our own disgust or, as he called this phenomenon, resistance. The unconscious contains those feelings and desires that challenge our comfortable vision of ourselves. But the price for comfort is high: it is difficult to get to the bottom of the causes of anxiety and neuroses. So we need to come to terms with our cute oddities and contradictions.

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The people we tend to think are attractive don't just seem so to us for objective reasons (because they're friendly, you can talk about politics with them, or they like sports like you). But also because they bring with them problems and difficulties that are especially attractive to us. Most of us go through the same suffering, which, as a rule, is associated with the suffering and experiences experienced in childhood.

12. How exactly does your partner annoy you?

Don't just blame the other person for shortcomings, such as being distant or overly sensitive. We must admit that, on the contrary, it is precisely these shortcomings that attract us. We look for them to reproduce the pattern of dissatisfaction we learned in childhood.

In general, in a relationship, we are not looking for what gives the most pleasure, but for what seems familiar, close. Understanding the nature of this driving force will help us learn to empathize with ourselves and treat our partner with greater understanding. After all, how does he know that we find him attractive in part because he might upset us?

13. Write down five qualities of a partner that are really difficult for you to live with.

A good partnership is possible not so much between two healthy mature people (there are not so many of them on our planet), but between two crazy people who are lucky to find a safe place for another person in themselves, among their relative insanity.

14. How do you feel when you start to like someone?

You may feel overwhelmed and begin to annoy this person, or, conversely, try to run away from a fan or admirer (“Why does he / she have such bad taste?”). This is a characteristic response of a person who does not know how to love himself, and about half of them (mainly because the people most important to us in the past were not interested in us). Start resisting suspicions about yourself. At least in order not to throw them out with rage at the person who shows interest in you.

15. What is the main problem in your relationship with your mother?

16. What is the main problem in your relationship with your father?

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These questions may sound like a cliché, but it takes time for their true significance to emerge. Spend, say, one hour answering each question in writing. If you are honest, you will experience not the most pleasant emotions: sadness, anger, resentment. But in order to live on, you need to deal with your grievances and feelings.

17. What did you learn about relationships from your parents?

Humanity is showing unprecedented growth in terms of technological progress: we are learning more and transmitting our knowledge more efficiently. But we haven't even made nearly the same progress in the emotional realm. Because we do not realize enough that the negative patterns of behavior that we acquire in childhood, we reproduce in adulthood. Try to recognize yours before letting them out.

18. What slightly unhealthy, strange things do you find attractive in a partner?

Do your parents have these traits? According to the theory of repetition obsession from psychoanalysis, we are all drawn to the problematic things that we encountered as children. This does not mean that we will repeat all the actions that will lead to emotional trauma. In some cases, on the contrary, we will avoid every aspect associated with this experience, and thus continue to remain attached to it.

19. Make a List of People Who Really Attract You

Have you ever experienced, even if only fleetingly, sexual attraction of any kind to every person on this list? And did this attraction entail any difficulties, no matter for what reason (perhaps this person had a couple, or he is you, or did it make you doubt your sexual orientation)? The reasons for this excitement are always hidden in ourselves.

20. If you were to evaluate yourself impartially, what would you warn a friend about if he thought about a relationship with you?

People can tell a lot about themselves and their problems. Indeed, we do not need those who are completely free from any problems or shortcomings. We need people who are able to explain their problems and how they deal with them.

21. Explain what you think is happening in this picture?

It's not clear what's going on in this drawing, because the image is (intentionally) vague and ambiguous. Therefore, whatever you say comes from within. What details you add, what story you tell, reflects the state of your inner world. Especially if you are sure that you understand what is shown in the picture, and persistently prove it. This image is a test by which psychologists evaluate your psychological defense mechanism, projection.

22. What is shown here?

Another ambiguous picture. Here you can see many stories: a mother and her sick child, a wife who kills her husband a moment before the kiss. Write down what you think is going on here. Then ask a friend to do the same. Discuss what aspects of your life and personality you are unknowingly projecting onto the picture.

23. Write what you will answer to the phrase "I'm very sorry that we splashed your clothes, although we tried very hard to avoid a puddle"?

By your answer, you can judge the attitude towards disappointment. Typically, there are three options:

we get angry, we go berserk;
we do not go berserk because of an inner sense of shame, which does not allow us to reach the extreme point, even when there is a reason for it;
we don't fly into a rage because we think that other people's reaction will be violent and unpleasant if we express our dissatisfaction.

24. How would other people react if you explained to them how you feel?

In childhood, we form a belief that will surely happen if we open our feelings. Since we were often turned away from us, we learned to hide our "bad" thoughts. And at first glance, we may seem obedient and friendly, but one has only to look deeper ...

To become a mature person, you need to understand the basis of self-knowledge: the world of childhood is not the whole world. This is one part of it, although it has a significant impact, from which we could not escape at one time. But, fortunately, we have become more eloquent and hardy than when we were five years old. Take courage and express your feelings.

25. What are your (or could be) shortcomings as a parent?

It is very difficult to imagine possible disadvantages, especially if we really want to be loving and kind parents. Nevertheless, we will have shortcomings, and they can be divided into two groups:

recreated according to the type of unhealthy behavior patterns from their own childhood;
overreacting to unhealthy childhood behaviors that have influenced our own behavior patterns.

26. Name three sexual scenarios that excite you the most.

Sexual fantasies can be interpreted as an attempt to recreate what causes us problems or is not available in the world outside of sex. So, for example, a uniform can attract because people in uniform seem to us strict and inspire fear. Or we want to be seen and heard in public because our parents were overly good-natured prudes. are little utopias that tell us about problematic bits of our biography.

27. What unusual sexual desires do you have?

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Everyone has a fear of being (or appearing to be) a pervert. This is part of what makes us civilized. However, self-knowledge includes the recognition that the unconscious is, by its very nature, completely depraved and is no cause for alarm. We have extremely strong censorship mechanisms that prevent any of this from happening 99.9% of the time. At the same time, we can explore without fear what is hidden in us and affects our lives.

28. When did you cry or wanted to cry as an adult?

Most tears in adulthood are not caused by pain, but by the sight of something incredibly beautiful and close (reconciliation between father and son, sudden generosity of a stingy person, a beautiful garden). We remind ourselves how we want to see this one, and we become sad that we so rarely see it like this.

29. Write down the five most important things in your life. How much time do you spend on them?

There is a huge difference between what we say we value and what we end up doing. Paradoxically, we don't devote enough attention, time and resources to the things we care about the most. It is very important to realize this. Try to reduce this difference.

30. What things do you often buy that don't bring you that much joy?

We believe in advertising, which, among other things, masterfully convinces us of what we should want. It is not surprising that we often do not bring us any satisfaction, but only boredom and anxiety: clothes that gather dust in the closet after one exit, cars that do not justify their high price, and so on. We must keep track not only of our spending, but also of the pleasure (say, on a scale of 1 to 10) that shopping brings us.

31. What are you trying to say with your clothes?

Any clothing can be equated to the form of a certain category of people. It reflects who we see ourselves as and which group we belong to. In addition, our physical appearance can provide important information about some of our anxieties. What are you trying to protect yourself from with clothing?

32. Name three works of art that mean a lot to you.

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Often we love in art what we lack in our real life. Our taste is evidence of a need. For example, we like peaceful pictures because we are in a hurry all the time. Or carefree music, because we feel a lot of restrictions in our lives. Taste reflects not only who we are, but also how we would like to see ourselves.

33. What do you regret the most?

We so often regret something. After all, sometimes in life you have to make important decisions without having an idea of \u200b\u200bwhat you have to face, for example, whom to marry or marry, where to live, what profession to choose. We have to go blindly, and this is not our fault. We must learn to share our regrets and worries. It's the only way to feel less alone.

34. What are you a little addicted to?

Alcohol, shopping, cigarettes, porn, arguments… Addiction cannot be strictly defined as attachment to one specific substance, this concept is much broader. - this is a feeling of a strong need for something, and the cause is most often a serious problem in some area of \u200b\u200bour life. Therefore, you do not need to dwell on the substance or action that causes addiction. Focus on the sorrows and anxieties that fuel your addiction to him. Understand that you are not a bad person, it is just that your suffering is manifested in this way. And the solution to the problem of addiction lies in overcoming this suffering.

35. Make a list of three things that annoy you about the person next to you.

Small insignificant things upset us because they are directly related to more global problems. They go against some of our psychological expectations, such as punctuality, privacy, organization ... Ideally, we need to understand what global things matter to us, and protect them, treating with indulgence the little things that people sometimes unintentionally do.

36. What negative traits of your character would you not like to show people?

Almost certainly everyone is already aware of these shortcomings. Other people know more about us in five minutes than we do about ourselves decades later, because their knowledge of the other is not suppressed by the unconscious. Being honest with others comes easy. Instead of hoping that no one will ever notice yours, assume that everyone already knows about them. And in the future, treat them with a little humor and self-irony.

37. Arrange the following concepts in descending order of importance in your work:

money;
status;
creation;
impact on society;
colleagues.

Our career aspirations are influenced by three forces:

parents' hopes
society's (other people's) expectations;
feelings that arise in our work.

We are usually the least likely to listen to ourselves. And most often the first two forces win. It may take several decades before we recognize the horrifying fact that we worked only for the sake of a parent (who may have already died) or for the sake of outsiders and, most often, people who are indifferent to us. It's probably not too late now.

38. If you knew that you would not fail in your profession, what would you try?

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Often we are afraid of embarrassing ourselves because our aspirations and desires for a career do not correspond to our real knowledge or skills. And so we don't even try. And this is an exact guarantee that your aspirations will never become a reality. We owe it to ourselves to do this and speak out loud about what we want to do and who we want to be, even if it is not easy and fails without failure.

39. What things have made you jealous lately?

We were taught that envy is bad, and strictly forbidden to do so. But in fact, people or things that we envy help us better understand our innermost desires, and this, in turn, tells us a lot about ourselves as a person. Try to keep a diary of your envious feelings, do not accumulate them in yourself and try to make your dreams come true.

40. Why might co-workers criticize you behind your back?

And there is nothing to be offended about. Your fears are well founded. Everything that you suspect could have occurred to others, and this is already a reality. The point is not to try to avoid such imaginary gossip, but to take action to combat its existence: do not give others a reason to criticize, strive to be better.

41. What or who do you associate yourself with?

If I were the weather, I would be...
If I were furniture, I would be...
If I were a car brand, I would be...
If I were a genre of music, I would be...
If I were food, I would be...
If I were an animal, I would be...
If I were a typeface, I would be...

For ourselves, we are something vague and formless, but sometimes we can recognize the key features of our personality through metaphors and analogies. The animal is most often particularly revealing.

42. Have you ever been unfair to others?

Make a list of guilt-inducing experiences when you were particularly unfair to specific people and lashed out at them.

What makes you worry? If you shared your concern, would the situation change? In the future, try to let others know that you are upset, instead of making a fuss over petty things.

43. How do you react to stimuli?

Someone annoys you. What do you say: “You are so annoying when…” or “I feel annoyed when you…”?

Psychologists prefer the second formulation: in their opinion, this approach is the essence of good communication. By describing how others affect you rather than blaming them, you don't put people on the defensive. Therefore, most likely, they will listen to you. Self-knowledge helps to separate what applies to you and what applies to the people around you.

44. Which of the following applies to you?

When my partner upsets me, I lose interest, withdraw and want to be alone.
When my partner upsets me, I panic, fly into a rage and start a fight.

These are the two most common and unhealthy reactions when you get hurt in. Psychologists describe the first situation as attachment avoidance and the second as anxious attachment. Choose the third option correctly: explain what hurts you, calmly, confidently and without unnecessary vindictiveness. Only 10% of people do this. But this is the right decision if you want to build a mature relationship.

45. Write down all the bad things about your relationship with your parents and then with your loved one.

Please note that the problems pop up are the same. Or at least you can see the connection between them. There is irony in this. Maybe it's time to resolve conflicts?

46. What prevents you from making decisions?

Our brain has its flaws. Be prepared that when you make important decisions, you will feel them for yourself. See mistakes as an opportunity to learn about your weaknesses and take action. Be vigilant when you come to conclusions about your shortcomings, do not let them interfere with you.

47. What is the first association that comes to mind when you hear these words:

skirt;
carrot;
wool;
Castle;
movie;
shot.

We've become so good at hiding what's going on in our hearts that the only way to recognize what's really bothering us is to turn off our minds for a while. Analyze your answers, think about what hidden fears and desires they may indicate.

48. How would you describe yourself?

Describe yourself using four adjectives. Ask three friends to do the same. Compare and contrast scores. What did you miss? What have you learned about yourself?

49. Map your failures

Write down your failures, indicating the approximate date they occurred. Next to each failure, write what it taught you.

You must recognize patterns. And the best we can do is to understand what behavior leads us to and what they give us as a result.

50. What did you literally just lie to someone in your circle about?

None of us live in absolutely ideal conditions. White lies are the price of belonging to society. The desire for complete transparency is a naive and dangerous illusion.

51. Continue the phrases:

If a truly kind person wanted to praise me, he would say...
If a truly cruel person was judging me, he would say...

Learn to stick to the golden mean between these two extremes. Be a demanding but generous friend to yourself.

52. In sex, do you dominate or obey? What about the rest of your life?

Usually the second answer is the opposite of the first. In other words, sex is compensation and stress relief from ordinary existence.

53. What things in your life would make your loved ones worry if they found out about them?

It is perfectly normal to have secrets that even the closest people are unaware of. We try not to scare those we love.

54. What would you like to achieve in your career in a year, five, ten years?

To have your own plans means not to be the executor of someone else's.

55. What was your favorite thing to do as a child?

Are you experiencing similar feelings now? A good career involves connecting your adult activities and childhood hobbies and feelings.

I suggest that you treat the search for a life's work as a research work, and enjoy the process. Most likely, this question cannot be answered quickly. It will probably take you a year, maybe two.

At the end of the message - a small gift - a poem by Kipling.

To begin with, it is worth considering the initial data.

1) You are 25 years old.

2) If you lead a healthy lifestyle, take care of yourself, do not start illnesses, then you will be able to actively live up to 75 years.

3) Therefore, it is about how to spend the next 50 years of life.

4) It is wise to spend 2-4% of this time looking for something that you will enjoy doing the other 96-98% of your life.

The following seems reasonable to me:

I) Study what other people have written about your problem.

II) Expand your horizons and erudition so that you have plenty to choose from. Most likely, you just do not yet know what interests you and what fascinates you.

III) Surround yourself with enthusiastic people from different fields of knowledge.

IV) Keep a diary in which you will describe your impressions, make comments that will later help you understand your preferences.

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In addition, I will say that a lot of sectarian seminars are now divorced, in which people are allegedly helped to find themselves, but in reality they are brainwashed. It is wise to stay away from them. As well as from any esoteric, where, under the guise of an incredible discovery, people are offered common truths.

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And now in more detail:

I) *Study what other people have written about your problem*

1) Viktor Frankl - "Man's Search for Meaning", "A Psychologist in a Concentration Camp"

Frankl went through Auschwitz and, like no one else, knows a lot about the meaning of life.

2) Vladimir Levy - "Where to live?"

Levy acts as a friend-adviser, leading the reader to an answer.

3) Eugene O'Kelly - Chasing the Elusive Light

O'Kelly, the prominent executive of the American company KPMG, was pleased with the news that due to brain cancer, he had 100 days to live. O'Kelly conducted an audit of his life and developed a strategy in accordance with which he lived until the end of his days. The last chapter was written by his wife.

4) Fedor Uglov - "Heart of a surgeon", "Everyday life of a surgeon"

Fedor Uglov is an example of a person who has been passionate about the profession since childhood. The book will once again remind you of what passion and passion for work is. It is also interesting from the point of view of the events described. Reads easily and in one breath.

5) Tina Seelig - "Do It Yourself"

Tina believes that people often stop themselves with far-fetched restrictions and because of this they do not achieve success. She gives examples of interesting unconventional behavior that helps resolve difficult situations.

6) Arthur Schopenhauer - “Aphorisms for mastering worldly wisdom”

The enthusiastic misanthrope Schopenhauer throws up seemingly obvious ideas that sometimes escape attention. For example, that you should take care of the kind of education and activity that suits your personality and inclinations, and avoid everything else.

7) Chesterfield - "Letters to my son"

Chesterfield, a British politician who lived in the 1700s, shares ideas that are still valuable today. In him you will find a lot of sound advice about ethics, honor, duty, which you can introduce into your life.

8) Dan Kennedy - "Tough Time Management"

Dan shows how valuable time is in terms of money, and teaches how to manage it properly.

II) *Expand your horizons and erudition*

Biography

Fiction

Psychology

Biology
Politics

Watch various video courses.

Asked the question “I want to know more about myself?”. Knowing yourself is a great opportunity to find inner harmony and mobilize your own strength.

Women's curious nature has always been attracted by the opportunity to learn more about yourself. That is why a woman with undisguised pleasure listens to gossip about herself and conducts psychological tests from the pages of glossy magazines. True, in the answers to them she is far from always being honest - such a purely feminine attitude is to give the “correct” answers. Therefore, the result may not be true. But there are in modern psychology and such tests in which even one cannot conduct oneself. They are called "projective" and are quite interesting in their content. And you can carry out such techniques for yourself even in the office, when you just want to relax with a cup of tea.

Tests - "how to learn more about yourself"

Test 1. Bush

So, you need to close your eyes and imagine yourself ... a bush. Yes, just such a bush or bush. And now it is important to focus and finish the picture with your own imagination:

whether the bush is large or small;
what it looks like;
what are his roots?
Are there trees or other bushes nearby?
does anyone take care of the bush, or is it “on its own”.

And now the analysis:

The size of the bush is the level of self-esteem, the higher the bush, the higher the opinion of your beloved.
Flowers on a bush is a good habit to embellish everything in life, starting with your own apartment and ending with your behavior.
Thorns - slight aggression, the ability to stand up for oneself. But, even if there were no leaves, it means that it is time to go on vacation, this is a sign of chronic fatigue.
The roots speak of affection for one's relatives, family. The deeper and stronger they are, the stronger the connection with loved ones. But a bush without roots or with superficial roots is most often imagined by emancipated teenagers and people living like a tumbleweed.
The trees around are close people, friends. The further they are, the greater the loneliness in real life.
A person caring for a bush is someone close to him who gives strength and takes care of him to some extent. But "wild" plants are often imagined by women who have taken place in life with a skeptical view of the world.

Test 2

In this test, you need to take a piece of paper and draw a creature that does not exist in real life, or even in fairy tales. It can be anything, the main thing is to draw it carefully, to the smallest detail.

So now we can analyze. The first point - in what part of the sheet is the animal and what size is it? So, insecure persons often draw their fabulous animal small and somewhere in the corner. And the monster of successful ladies is definitely on the whole sheet. If you get an “average” option, you can pay attention to its location: on the left is the fear of the future, on top is dreaminess, and vice versa. The wings of an animal are vital energy, the ability to “soar” over any obstacles and problems. Claws, scales and horns - the ability to fight and protect yourself. Tail - dexterity and natural charm. The presence of ears is an interest in the opinions of others about one's own person. Wool, hair - femininity. Spread paws-handles to the sides - sociability, spaced legs - unwillingness to obey the rules and follow patterns. And in general, the less the resulting fairy-tale creature looks like a person (does not stand on two legs, for example), the more developed the personality and emotional maturity.

Test 3. Road

On this test, you can again lean back in a comfortable office chair, close your eyes and dream. You need to imagine the road and walk along it, paying attention to the weather along the way. There will be a fence along the way. It needs to get around or climb over somehow. Until the road ends in front of the house. You need to enter the house and look around.

So what was the road like? The wider it is, the more sociable and open for communication the one that represented it. Sunny and clear weather is always represented by cheerful optimists, but gloomy weather is seen as cloudy and even with rain. But the fence has the value of pressing problems. If he introduced himself as frail, wicker, it means that the current problems and eggs are not worth a damn. But a large and stone barrier is a sign of anxiety, mental fatigue. Next is the house. What is it like: a small rustic, fashionable cottage or a large and deaf stone tower? As in the tale of the Wolf and the Three Little Pigs, here the house has the meaning of personal security, isolation from others. Cheerful and open people like to present beautiful one-story bungalow houses with a large welcoming terrace in this test. And anxious and distrustful individuals erect in their imagination a huge stone tower with a single window at the top. Another would be a dragon on guard, on a chain. And, finally, the decoration of the house has the most interesting meaning - it is a mirror of the inner world. The richer the interior of the house, the brighter and lighter it is, the more harmonious the personality and the brighter its charisma. But if inside the house it is cold, dusty and miserable, it means that there is only anxiety and depression in the female soul now. If the result turned out to be just that, it's time to turn such a test into an effective relaxation technique. Every day, as soon as a quiet moment appears in the office (for example, at lunchtime), you need to close your eyes, imagine the road again, boldly tear down the fence and go into the house. And there - arrange flowers, open windows, paint everything in bright colors and mentally, with hands, “push apart” the cramped walls. After two or three days of such minute relaxations, the mood will improve significantly, and depression will slowly begin to go away.

If personal problems were found during the test, it's time to work on them in order to achieve inner harmony and become happy.

The opportunity to take psychological tests online is a way to learn something new about yourself, open the “secret doors” of your own nature, and finally deal with what gnaws at us from the inside. Therefore, every Internet user has become interested in such tests at least once. What you have encountered in social networks and other Internet spaces before could convince you that online psychological and personality tests are a useless and pointless waste of time ("garbage" like tests for "psychological age", or, worse " psychological weight” are precisely those). We hasten to reassure you - our review is spared from such nonsense. In the selection that will be presented below, the test results will provide food for thought, introspection, and perhaps serve as an impetus for correcting certain aspects of the personality.

To start, as a warm-up, we offer psychological tests from Adme - a site with very interesting and sometimes very useful information (we did a review about this site - you can read it). These tests are very short, easy to pass, and the “output” results are understandable (they are, of course, not an example of “deep psychoanalysis”, but also very informative).

Let's start with the most fundamental question: Is everything in your life as it should be, or is it time to finally change something? Passing this psychological test from Adme will give you the answer to this question. To run it simply click on image:

The result of the following short psychological test from Adme.ru may cause some people to feel indignation and protest: all because people with a similar character trait never admit to themselves that they are exactly like that!

Yes, yes, it is the “test for tediousness” that we suggest you pass. There is nothing to worry about - no one will see your result! 🙂 Well, if it happens that according to the test results you are “called” a bore, you can choose one of two options for perceiving the result:

Angrily close the tab with "this stupid test", scolding behind the backs of those who come up with such nonsense;
Think about whether such a characteristic is acceptable for you, and if not, what should be changed in your behavior and thinking so that neither the computer nor the people around you try on such a “label” on you.

To pass the psychological online test "How boring are you" just click on the picture with Sheldon 🙂.

The third psychological test found on the pages of Adme.ru promises to determine "the source of your problems". Just don’t say that everything in your life is perfect and there are no problems - everyone is dissatisfied with at least something. Introspection and introspection are features that make us fundamentally different from other representatives of the animal world 🙂.

This personality test is not literally taken online, to be honest. But nothing prevents you from going through it right now, if you have a pen, an A4 sheet at hand, and there is also the opportunity to abstract from everything for a short time (i.e., to make sure that nothing distracts you over the next 5-10 minutes ).

If now you do not have such an opportunity, we definitely recommend that you return to this review later and take this test anyway! We have experienced for ourselves that passing this psychological test really makes the brain and subconscious move - you literally physically feel this process. And most importantly - get a result that is really capable of explaining a lot to you. At least it will give you something to think about.

To go to a detailed description of this interesting psychological test, click either on the image above or on the following link:

Now let's move on to the "heavy artillery" - more serious online psychological tests will follow, the results of which are not described by a couple of general phrases. The next test, very famous among psychologists, is called the Luscher Color Test. Its advantages: absolutely simple rules for passing, does not take much time, the result will be clear to anyone, and not only to qualified psychologists.

It is hard to believe that such simple actions as “clicking” on pictures can tell a person something that he himself either did not know about or refused to accept such characteristics of his own personality. But we assure you: reading the results of testing, which will put your essence “on the shelves”, you will understand that this is all really about you, no matter how much you would like to hide it from yourself.

An equally interesting visual psychological online test is the Szondi test, or the Portrait Selection Method. Psychologist L. Szondi, when creating his concept, relied on the methods of psychoanalysis by the well-known Sigmund Freud, therefore the results of this testing will be a certain “bias”.

The answers received within the framework of this test will reveal another side of your personality. Questions of personal life, attraction, whatever one may say, play a very important, sometimes predominant role in our life, and too much depends on whether everything is good in this personal life. Interpreting the results of Sondi's online test can be somewhat tricky, but this psychological test has a very handy option to save a link to the result page. If you have a psychologist among your friends and acquaintances, you can send a link to your results to him and ask for a more detailed “decoding” of the answers received.

A little more time will be required for you to pass the next personality-psychological online test, entitled "The Cattell Test", based on the multivariate personality method of Professor Raymond Cattell, a man who had a huge impact on the development of psychology in the 20th century.

Not only is this online test serious, but also the amount of time that you will need to spend answering all 105 questions. But it's worth it - after all, you will have in your hands a truly proven and proven tool for multivariate analysis of your personality. And you can definitely devote 10-15 minutes of your life to this.

Although the results of this test are presented in a fairly convenient and understandable form, the abundance of evaluation factors can confuse the "tested". Therefore, for a better analysis of the received estimates, do not forget to save a link to your results.

The last online psychological test that we would like to offer you to take is the SMIL test. It is based on one of the most popular, studied and effective psychodiagnostic methods. This technique allows you to literally "disassemble" the personality of the person being tested on several scales and see which aspects of it are normal and which require special attention.

It should be noted that passing this test must be approached thoroughly and in all seriousness: the SMIL method easily reveals how responsibly and truthfully the testee answers the questions offered to him. And considering that there are 566 questions in total, you simply won’t be able to “shoot back quickly”! On average, it takes 50-60 minutes to pass the SMIL test - this time should be enough for you to think about and answer all the questions. The interpretation of the results will also take quite a long time: as already mentioned, your inner "I" will be analyzed on several scales, and the results on each scale will need to be studied both individually and in combination with each other.

In order to understand the results of this personality-psychological test on your own, we recommend that you familiarize yourself with the information from - in our opinion, it is here that the most concise and understandable explanations for using the SMIL methodology are given.

If there is no time, effort and desire for independent analytics, you can do what many do: ask experts on thematic psychological forums to explain what your test results say:

That's all, dear readers! We hope that the online psychological tests discussed in the review have interested you, and the article as a whole has been of benefit to you and helped you find answers to your questions regarding your internal state, understanding yourself. Peace of mind to you and success in everything!

Article Psychological tests online - reveal the secrets of your personality was modified: January 18, 2020 by the author netobserver